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Grief and Loss If you had anticipated having a child together with a significant other, the absence of a partner to share the joys and anxieties of the journey might evoke a sense of loss. You may mourn the loss of the concept of “family” you had held for yourself and the shared experience you had looked forward to, including the anticipation of a partner with whom to co-parent.
Grief might also surface when reflecting on the absence of a biological link between your future child and the envisioned partner who never materialized..
Acknowledging these losses and allowing yourself to grieve them is an important step in opening yourself up more fully to embracing the hope and promise of the path to parenthood that you are embarking on and “re-writing” the narrative of your family and your future.
Managing Expectations
Entering into the world of fertility treatment can bring with it a set of expectations that may not always align with reality. It’s crucial to keep in mind that the process might not go exactly as planned and that there might be challenges or setbacks along the way. While it’s healthy to engage in planning and preparation and to think positively, flexibility and adaptability are equally important. Stay open to adjusting your expectations and remind yourself that every step you take is one step closer to fulfilling your dream of becoming a mother.
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